[That...does actually sound so simple, and yet so brilliant? She may have a newfound respect for you and your abilities, Hilda. That champagne glass will be happily relinquished; at this point she could definitely use a refill. Thank goodness for the fellow with the tight-fitting coat...]
So you just need to make sure the compliments sound...genuine, is it? Like they could be true? That's the secret?
[Seems...straightforward enough. Point out traits that actually exist - such as the aforementioned broad shoulders - and...
....wait wait, hang on, she might. she might not be getting this as much as she first thought-]
But it...it has to be done in a complimentary way, doesn't it?
[That casual...flirtiness, if she might. Hm.]
You make it look so easy, Hilda. When I try it I simply feel silly.
[Being (mostly) genuine is, in fact, key, hence Hilda's eager nodding—that gradually, you know. Slows to a stop, because ah, Coco. Dear Coco. In some ways, flirtiness is just... an innate ability? Hilda is fairly good at reading people, and thus she's fairly good at tweaking her approach to capture their attention—but how in the world does one explain that! Whew. Better to stick with the absolute basics, she thinks.]
You're worrying way too much, [she says, bluntly but not unkindly.] Try only thinking about the person you're trying to compliment. What will make them happy? You want to make them feel like the most important person in Fód—in the room!
[Sometimes it's hard to remember that they're not, um, where they should be, but she waves that slip-up away. Hey, hi, don't stress about that.]
Why don't you try it out on me? Pretend we've just met.
[And there's so much to compliment, in Hilda's opinion, so she will just. Stand here. Clasp her hands before her as she gives Constance a sweet smile.]
[There is so much to compliment, which is a problem in itself - what should she choose? Her hairstyle? Her dress? Her choice of make-up? Her general air? Are you supposed to innately know which feature the person will prefer to have highlighted? What if you choose something that they're actually not all that confident about and then everything is ruined? Goddess, why is this so difficult-
...
...right. Overthinking it and worrying. That's what Hilda said she needed to stop doing, isn't it? So....
....this still feels incredibly embarrassing but she will. try her best-]
Ah, your....your dress is so lovely! It truly highlights your...
[Complimenting her dress? A solid start. Hilda feels a spark of hope, really, even if she can hear the gears grinding in poor Constance's head—but the conclusion! Ah. It isn't quite what Hilda would have chosen...
...But Constance isn't Hilda. They've different approaches to, um, these sorts of things—and honestly, it wasn't a bad way to end it. The long pause is what killed it, and as the long pause was almost certainly the result of nerves, Hilda thinks it's better to build Constance's confidence up as best she can. Let her sway in place for a moment, humming thoughtfully.]
"Vivacity,' [she slowly repeats, almost as though she's sounding the word out.] Well, no one's ever given me that compliment before. I like it!
[Vivacious Hilda! Yeah! She can work with that, especially as she smiles—vivaciously—and brings a hand to her cheek. It's time for a practical lesson.]
You really do have such a way with words, Constance. Sometimes it's hard to find the right ones... [A tiny sigh.] Like when I'm trying to describe someone's eyes! Yours are a beautiful shade of blue, but that just isn't enough. I can hardly look away...
[She's practically oozing charm. That special, Hilda-brand, "oh dear, I am a delicate maiden, alone and helpless" charm.]
[What is killing Constance so much, right now, is that she knows she has a way with words; her vocabulary is suitably advanced, exactly what one would expect from a woman of noble stock. So why is she finding herself so damn tongue-tied when it comes to this?
Particularly when Hilda starts turning on the charm...it's like she's pressed some kind of internal switch, and bam! Perfect flirting! She's feeling compelled to get her a drink herself...]
Well, that's...that's very nice of you to say, Hilda...
[Is this another test?? It is, isn't it? Wait, should she be flirting back? Is such a thing appropriate?
Will she ever stop overthinking absolutely everything?]
That is to say, ah! Mine couldn't possibly compare with yours! Blue eyes are so dreadfully common, yet the exquisite shade of pink in yours is a rarity!
[Okay, that's....hmm, that's not too bad, let's try to keep following this path...]
No wonder a simply bat of your eyelashes is enough to compel even the surliest of gentlemen to do what you wish!
[Their vic—I mean, the nice man helping them is probably still fighting his way through the crowd by the bar, and so Hilda is free to focus on this. And honestly, Constance? Not bad? Hilda's smile widens in spite of herself.]
Oh, stop. You'll make me blush!
[And maybe there is, in fact, a hint of color to her cheeks. The champagne's fault—but she will use it to her advantage. School is in session.]
But now I'm curious, [she admits, seeming somewhat shy as she leans a tad closer, blinking up at Constance through those famed eyelashes of hers.] If that's true, does it also work on... the sweetest of ladies?
[Rather on the nose! But as this is precisely the kind of uninspired nonsense that, like, 90% of men will throw back at Constance, so.]
[Said uninspired nonsense has absolutely worked, unfortunately, if the way Constance's cheeks immediately go red has anything to say about it. To pass Level 1, but trip instantly at Level 2...how terribly embarrassing...]
You are...too sweet, Hilda...
[As much as she would love to insist that that was flirting, definitely, that was definitely her responding to that flirting...
...not quite. It's enough to get Constance to step away for a moment, to try and get herself back under control.]
Oh, I completely fumbled it, didn't I! You're far too good at this!
[She's always been a firm believer in practice makes perfect (unless you're already perfect, which in many ways she is!), so it would make sense that a woman like Hilda - who makes all this look so easy, you'd think she sprung from the womb ready to charm the midwives - would be incredibly good at it. But still! Why is it so simple to master complex spells from complicated textbooks, but this...something that should be so straightforward and easy is causing her to completely unravel?!]
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[Ah, yes. It's every bit as effective as she'd thought it would be—and that's cute, really. Hilda can't help but to smile as she settles back into a more natural stance, but she manages to (just barely) keep her humor in check. It has everything to do with how she was raised? She knows this? Nothing was ever expected of her; all eyes were on her older brother, except for those eyes that just so happened to wander her way... and, well, the rest is history. She's had years of practice, ie years of avoiding responsibility! Constance, however...]
Maybe, [she concedes,] but that doesn't mean you're bad. You just need more practice! That's all.
[Because practice does, in fact, make perfect, even if the thought alone makes Hilda break out into hives.]
When our new friend comes back with our drinks, you should thank him! Try telling him something nice—and don't worry about fumbling it. I'll be right here if you need me.
[Meaning she'll step in with a save if she needs to, because it's all about girls helping girls! YEAH!]
i pretend i do not see it (no i really didn't see it!!)
[She did manage to keep up with that initial comment of Hilda's, didn't she? Alright, perhaps she fell apart a little bit on the follow-up, but! No skill that was worth mastering would ever be easy, would it? And this one is essential! If she's going to re-enter noble society, it's imperative she can play this game.
Besides, as far away as it is, she will need to obtain a suitable husband at some point...a political marriage isn't out of the question, but it would be nice to be able to banter with one's paramour...]
I really do appreciate you taking the time to do this with me, you know.
[And for once, there's no forced noble airs or smugness in her voice; it's almost....genuine.
Stranger things have happened.]
You're a lot more talented than people give you credit for, Hilda.
[Some people might interpret that compliment as being, ah, somewhat back-handed? Hilda, however, is fully aware that people are rarely aware of her talents—and that's just how she likes it, thank you. Under-performer 4 life.]
Oh, I don't know about that. [Don't expect anything from her, Coco!!!] But I'll admit, it is flattering to hear such praise from the talented heir to House Nuvelle.
[Another well-tailored compliment to buoy Constance's confidence—and it isn't a lie! It's, mmm, kind of nice to be praised for this thing she does indeed excel at... but it isn't about her, really. It's Constance's night to shine, so.]
I'm always happy to spend time with you. We're friends!
[Constance has been officially adopted by the Deer, no take-backs allowed.]
[It was definitely meant to be a compliment! Constance just...isn't all that good at subtlety and/or not being uncomfortably candid with her opinions.
(if it wasn't. completely obvious)]
It's genuine, I assure you. I've very much enjoyed our time here. You, and the other Golden Deer, you...
[ooohhhhHHHH let her stop for a moment...there's a Feeling caught in her throat and it's kind of uncomfortable, just give her a minute to work it out...]
Well, you've...basically taken me in when you didn't need to and I'm...well, I'm very grateful. I only hope I can make it up to you one day.
[This is why she would never agree to take-backs...who is she supposed to watch awful TV with and drink awful wine with in the Black Eagles? Hubert? She has to laugh.]
When my house is restored to its former stupendous glory, I will simply have to have a feast in your honour!
[Can we just ignore any awkward 'Coco there's going to be a whole-ass war' thoughts? Good.]
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So you just need to make sure the compliments sound...genuine, is it? Like they could be true? That's the secret?
[Seems...straightforward enough. Point out traits that actually exist - such as the aforementioned broad shoulders - and...
....wait wait, hang on, she might. she might not be getting this as much as she first thought-]
But it...it has to be done in a complimentary way, doesn't it?
[That casual...flirtiness, if she might. Hm.]
You make it look so easy, Hilda. When I try it I simply feel silly.
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You're worrying way too much, [she says, bluntly but not unkindly.] Try only thinking about the person you're trying to compliment. What will make them happy? You want to make them feel like the most important person in Fód—in the room!
[Sometimes it's hard to remember that they're not, um, where they should be, but she waves that slip-up away. Hey, hi, don't stress about that.]
Why don't you try it out on me? Pretend we've just met.
[And there's so much to compliment, in Hilda's opinion, so she will just. Stand here. Clasp her hands before her as she gives Constance a sweet smile.]
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...
...right. Overthinking it and worrying. That's what Hilda said she needed to stop doing, isn't it? So....
....this still feels incredibly embarrassing but she will. try her best-]
Ah, your....your dress is so lovely! It truly highlights your...
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...your...vivacity!
[.......]
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...But Constance isn't Hilda. They've different approaches to, um, these sorts of things—and honestly, it wasn't a bad way to end it. The long pause is what killed it, and as the long pause was almost certainly the result of nerves, Hilda thinks it's better to build Constance's confidence up as best she can. Let her sway in place for a moment, humming thoughtfully.]
"Vivacity,' [she slowly repeats, almost as though she's sounding the word out.] Well, no one's ever given me that compliment before. I like it!
[Vivacious Hilda! Yeah! She can work with that, especially as she smiles—vivaciously—and brings a hand to her cheek. It's time for a practical lesson.]
You really do have such a way with words, Constance. Sometimes it's hard to find the right ones... [A tiny sigh.] Like when I'm trying to describe someone's eyes! Yours are a beautiful shade of blue, but that just isn't enough. I can hardly look away...
[She's practically oozing charm. That special, Hilda-brand, "oh dear, I am a delicate maiden, alone and helpless" charm.]
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Particularly when Hilda starts turning on the charm...it's like she's pressed some kind of internal switch, and bam! Perfect flirting! She's feeling compelled to get her a drink herself...]
Well, that's...that's very nice of you to say, Hilda...
[Is this another test?? It is, isn't it? Wait, should she be flirting back? Is such a thing appropriate?
Will she ever stop overthinking absolutely everything?]
That is to say, ah! Mine couldn't possibly compare with yours! Blue eyes are so dreadfully common, yet the exquisite shade of pink in yours is a rarity!
[Okay, that's....hmm, that's not too bad, let's try to keep following this path...]
No wonder a simply bat of your eyelashes is enough to compel even the surliest of gentlemen to do what you wish!
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Oh, stop. You'll make me blush!
[And maybe there is, in fact, a hint of color to her cheeks. The champagne's fault—but she will use it to her advantage. School is in session.]
But now I'm curious, [she admits, seeming somewhat shy as she leans a tad closer, blinking up at Constance through those famed eyelashes of hers.] If that's true, does it also work on... the sweetest of ladies?
[Rather on the nose! But as this is precisely the kind of uninspired nonsense that, like, 90% of men will throw back at Constance, so.]
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[Said uninspired nonsense has absolutely worked, unfortunately, if the way Constance's cheeks immediately go red has anything to say about it. To pass Level 1, but trip instantly at Level 2...how terribly embarrassing...]
You are...too sweet, Hilda...
[As much as she would love to insist that that was flirting, definitely, that was definitely her responding to that flirting...
...not quite. It's enough to get Constance to step away for a moment, to try and get herself back under control.]
Oh, I completely fumbled it, didn't I! You're far too good at this!
[She's always been a firm believer in practice makes perfect (unless you're already perfect, which in many ways she is!), so it would make sense that a woman like Hilda - who makes all this look so easy, you'd think she sprung from the womb ready to charm the midwives - would be incredibly good at it. But still! Why is it so simple to master complex spells from complicated textbooks, but this...something that should be so straightforward and easy is causing her to completely unravel?!]
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Maybe, [she concedes,] but that doesn't mean you're bad. You just need more practice! That's all.
[Because practice does, in fact, make perfect, even if the thought alone makes Hilda break out into hives.]
When our new friend comes back with our drinks, you should thank him! Try telling him something nice—and don't worry about fumbling it. I'll be right here if you need me.
[Meaning she'll step in with a save if she needs to, because it's all about girls helping girls! YEAH!]
i pretend i do not see it (no i really didn't see it!!)
[She did manage to keep up with that initial comment of Hilda's, didn't she? Alright, perhaps she fell apart a little bit on the follow-up, but! No skill that was worth mastering would ever be easy, would it? And this one is essential! If she's going to re-enter noble society, it's imperative she can play this game.
Besides, as far away as it is, she will need to obtain a suitable husband at some point...a political marriage isn't out of the question, but it would be nice to be able to banter with one's paramour...]
I really do appreciate you taking the time to do this with me, you know.
[And for once, there's no forced noble airs or smugness in her voice; it's almost....genuine.
Stranger things have happened.]
You're a lot more talented than people give you credit for, Hilda.
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Oh, I don't know about that. [Don't expect anything from her, Coco!!!] But I'll admit, it is flattering to hear such praise from the talented heir to House Nuvelle.
[Another well-tailored compliment to buoy Constance's confidence—and it isn't a lie! It's, mmm, kind of nice to be praised for this thing she does indeed excel at... but it isn't about her, really. It's Constance's night to shine, so.]
I'm always happy to spend time with you. We're friends!
[Constance has been officially adopted by the Deer, no take-backs allowed.]
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(if it wasn't. completely obvious)]
It's genuine, I assure you. I've very much enjoyed our time here. You, and the other Golden Deer, you...
[ooohhhhHHHH let her stop for a moment...there's a Feeling caught in her throat and it's kind of uncomfortable, just give her a minute to work it out...]
Well, you've...basically taken me in when you didn't need to and I'm...well, I'm very grateful. I only hope I can make it up to you one day.
[This is why she would never agree to take-backs...who is she supposed to watch awful TV with and drink awful wine with in the Black Eagles? Hubert? She has to laugh.]
When my house is restored to its former stupendous glory, I will simply have to have a feast in your honour!
[Can we just ignore any awkward 'Coco there's going to be a whole-ass war' thoughts? Good.]